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Realizing one self, more over acts as an anti virus, when we feel lost or feel we are moving away from ourself. The focus or purpose is to realize oneself spiritually. Its true that God is Innocent and no doubt he is very strong. When we start a work with him in mind and when we believe in the good purpose to bring happiness to humanity, it clicks. Thats what we give a name as LUCK. Its true that when you Pray and Dream of good things they happen, as Blessings, Luck and Destiny follows.

Monday, October 30, 2006

Creating Leaders (Ingredients of a super power)


If our goal is good then luck and destiny follows us. Economic prosperity, open source knowledge growth within universities, secured future, brotherhood for global peace. Here is something simple, basic and interesting. When we have burning desire and intention to create good leaders and to see good leadership grow in others we can see a reaction happening here, that we are creating a good leader within ourselves. This will lead to free and fair competition in creating emerging leaders. In a matter of time we will see that the scenario changes with better leaders encouraging better leadership in others. We will certainly land up with an idea of all leaders making decision within themselves of who is the appropriate leader who can lead all these leaders. We can see that we are creating leaders everywhere who are in turn creating a leader to lead themselves. It’s the genuine necessity and requirement which created an innovative system to achieve a good purpose without any greed, wickedness and bad ambitions with a pure competition and healing to the societies. We see that creating them with love and gratitude with an attitude of calmness, gentleness, and humbleness will provide healing with justice and satisfaction.

We should not forget that we are all the same human beings. At the end of the day we all work hard and expect the same basic necessities in life. We are all sailing in the same boat. It’s our responsibility and duty to help each other for a constructive good purpose. Basic remains the same. We all eat the same bread and butter. We all need a good night sleep. We all need the same peace of mind, health, wealth, happiness and prosperity. Prayers tend to become powerful when we pray for everyone, when it’s universal and global. United we stand. What is purpose of our effort when we are unable to get a good night sleep and have a good full meal? Hate, terror, anger, frustration, enmity will lead to bad health and destruction. Hope, patience, forgiveness, love, goodwill, and optimism will lead to justice, satisfaction and happiness. Realizing the basic necessities of life is the key to success. Accepting the truth will lead to justice. Its relives the mental stress and confusion. Things tend to grow better and healthy when the state of mind is clean and clear. Truth is plain and simple. When a leader wants to win the hearts of masses the he needs to speak the heart of the masses and generations. A good leader needs to address the clean and clear truth in order to win the hearts of the masses and generations.


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Here are some interesting links to a better management:
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The Foremost duty and responsibility of a leader is to serve the mankind. It’s to be constructive. Fighting and anger is destructive, which is not good to prosper. It has to be replaced with brotherhood, compassion and love in order to achieve the noble cause of mankind. It’s to serve and achieve the good purpose without any personal greedy desire to dictated and rule forcibly. It’s to confess, seek and pray for good things in life. It’s to be calm, gentle, humble and thus be stable. The objective to fulfill the necessity and requirement of the generations is to be achieved at any cost. They have to sacrifice the false ego of superiority. It has to be replaced with brotherhood, compassion and love in order to achieve the noble cause of mankind. It is not saying something and doing something else, but it is saying the right thing and doing exactly what we say. Law and order is to protect the innocent and poor. Law and order must not be used to create fear and terror but to provide freedom and liberty to masses and generations, for the protection of the needy and poor people.

Ingredients of a super power:

Richness does not apply only to money. We see personalities who are richer in their characters, richer in discipline, richer in spiritualism, richer in love and gratitude, richer in mental strengths to combat pain. It’s simple that they grow stronger in moral character as they are exposed to greater pains. In simple terms money and influence are one of the various ingredients to richness. They are all interlinked as far as we are strong morally, mentally and physically. We can earn money so to say our bread and butter and live a satisfied life of happiness. This does not apply to particular country, area or religion but a universal concept applicable everywhere. Money power comes from some countries or areas. Likewise some countries are good in spiritualism, some are good in character, some are good in their disciplined life, and this list is never ending. All that matters is the combination of all these powers to form one single powerful composite structure. This is called as the super power. It’s quite clear and simple that united we stand with unity in diversity. Its basics of strategic global management which we need to recollect. The Indian meditation technique has rigorously proved to control human intelligence and thoughts against worldly desires.

JaiSiyaRam: Story of my Life after the Cave:
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/my-life/7106-story-of-my-life-after-the-cave-2-jan-11.html

The above example of Jaisiyaram, is an excellent example of controlling mind, body and sole. “How to do kit” for Controlling mental frustrations with patience. Avoiding negative thoughts with positive hopeful thoughts. Discovering rejuvenate thoughts of life amid extreme imprisonment. It is similar to freedom of mind within physical imprisonment. A therapy for complete and extreme superpower.


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Friday, September 15, 2006

How ideas are concluded and decisions are materialized.

In simple, great ideas are possible only when both subconscious and conscious minds together decide and conclude. In other words, when conscious mind listens to subconscious and analysis what is to be done, depending upon the circumstances, situations and prior experiences. This means to say that, decisions are not possible until and unless the conscious mind listens to the subconscious mind and comes to a conclusion and decides what is to be done. That is decisions are materialized only when the conscious executes the conclusion into the “real world” or in the “real life” thus to become a reality. If the great ides are not passed on from the subconscious to conscious or if the conscious does not execute the ideas into real life, then the good ideas die without any expected outcome, which leads to repentance in life. Its quite often seen that we repent sometimes for not expressing our great ideas by killing them within with negligence and fear.

Why do we get frustrated? The answer is within us. There is someone inside us who will answer this question. Expectations are dreams where as circumstances are real. Things did not happen the way we expected them to happen. Things happen in reality only when we put efforts in real life. There are many different ways to reach the same destination. Persistence to be constructive is the key. Never loose hope. Only we ourselves can have a perfect answer to this question. When we get the answer, let’s analyze what’s the root cause of our frustration. Let’s make sure that we don't hurt anyone. God is watching every step we take. Once we find a perfect solution, let’s implement it so that we don't get frustrated next time.

It’s the personality which makes people do certain things. Certain persons are crazy by nature. They want to do something different. If they see someone walking on their foots they think of walking on their hands. Some of them want to ride bikes on a single wheel. They know that it’s risky and dangerous but still they insist. For some it’s their necessity and just a craze for some others. They want do things differently without any analysis just for change and fun. There are different people with diverse personalities and different limitations. Some are calculated with caution and precautions. These are the ones who have realized their failures and faced hard times in real life. Some of them don’t realize as they simply neglect, as it hurts when we think hard. They don’t reach any conclusions for their experiences in life due to confusions and fears. It depends on how the individual analysis certain problems under certain situations and circumstances. When we see some one who is calm, gentle, humble and stable, it means to say that the person has realized the pain of risks and has learnt his way of life.

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Monday, September 11, 2006

Relationships & Partnerships in Life.


A human-being in broader classification experiences mainly three different kinds of happiness in his life time:
(1) Agape (2) Eros (3) Philos.

The first one (agape) is for the children while at their childhood. This is experienced when we come across something amazing or interesting. In a state of wonder or amazement, as with the mouth wide open.

The second one (eros) is when they enter teenage and while at maturity. This is when we are aroused towards another opposite partner with fascination or infatuation.

The third one (philos) is intellectual of logical reasoning applicable at all ages, and especially at old age.
Thus it can be said that we experience the above defined happiness in our entire life. On further analyses it is quite obvious that, these happiness are the main ingredients of establishing relationships in our lives. As said above the third one PHILOS is experienced through the entire life. Thus this kind of happiness is a must to fulfill any kind of life long relationship, without which a person can never lead a satisfied happy life. Along with this PHILOS, depending upon our age factor, we also need AGAPE and EROS which lead to greater satisfied happy life. It is also noted that the AGAPE and EROS are quite temporary happiness, limited to certain time period depending upon the situations. Thus stronger relations, for example life-partners, spouses, marriages, deep-friendships, etc very much need PHILOS, without which a stronger relationship might not be possible. Along with this AGAPE and EROS are short lived. Thus constructive communication to express philosophical views is the most necessary aspect to establish any stronger relationships.

Philosophical relationships are quite often possible, very few agape relations may be encountered, and very rare, seldom are spouse or erotics relations encountered. As the relation to erotics is at a deeper level, which consists of philosophical and agape together, leading to life-partner, for entire life. Without proper coordination of philosophical, agape, proper understanding and respect, a erotics would merely be a infatuation without any strong stable relationship. Thus a life-partner relationship constitutes of many different, various emotions leading to happiness in life.

The beauty which can be seen with eyes is physical, and that which can be understood is mental. We can see the physical beauty but the philosophical one which is mental can only be experienced. It is quite true that, physical beauty can be created by humans using intelligence, but intelligence cannot be created using physical beauty. When we feel something is beautiful, we feel the happiness. For example when we look at beautiful flowers or butterflies, or various colors, or any other natures beauty. It is also true that this "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder", meaning something which may seem to be beautiful to my eyes might not necessarily seem to be beautiful to another person. It is also true that relationships happen in real life, in many different forms. True love comes to us sometimes as a sister or a brother. As a father or a mother, as a friend or a companion. In other words every relation ship has a meaning which is philosophical (analyzed by human brains). Thus we need to recognize these different relationships, so that we can establish them in real life.

It’s interesting to note that goodness grows when it’s distributed. If the good is not shared then how will the goodness spread? Belief in good exists only when we see good things happening around us. When there is pain, so much of pain that no one is ready to share it, then we speak to someone within ourselves to share the pain. We give a name to him as “God”. Then we say that God was the one who shared our pain and relieved us of sorrow. Here God was created when there was a genuine requirement, or in other words we say “God himself will come to share our sorrows when there is no one to help”. On analysis we see that there was someone within us whom we called as God. On further analysis we see that it was the subconscious mind that really helped us. To put it in simple terms we consciously spoke to subconscious to relieve the pain and called it as God. In other words God was created when the requirement was genuine or when our conscious mind thought that there was no other way to let go of the pain. Lets analyze this further.

There is no point in forcing someone to accept something, which they don’t like, as if it’s forcibly intruded then there are chances of breaking the relationship. In other words we are forcibly creating something when there is no genuine requirement for it to exist. When someone accepts something heartily, with subconscious mind, only then there is real happiness and satisfaction, as the requirement is genuine the realization is felt within oneself. That is when we listen within and someone within us accepts it.

It can be seen that strong bonds and happy relationships are possible naturally without any force being applied. It’s not fair and better to force them to happen. Its natural and simple, it was created only because there was a genuine requirement. We have to accept it naturally only because it is the truth. In other words “it cannot be created when there is no genuine requirement nor its creation can be stopped when there is a genuine requirement”. Things happen only because there is a genuine requirement. Either its good or bad, it all depends on how we look at them. If we do not believe in something good then it will not happen as there is no genuine requirement, as belief exists only when there is real requirement. It can be seen that when our subconscious mind forces us to believe something which our conscious mind does not want to accept, then what happens is that when we are asleep (or when our conscious mind is inactive) our subconscious tries to link our conscious (or in other words, we see dreams) which is created by subconscious mind. It’s better and healthy practice for the conscious mind to realize and listen to the subconscious mind. Its true to say that “no matter we accept it or not still we get dreams”. It’s not a very complex concept at all, as its natural and very simple as we experience this right from our childhood. It all depends on how we look at things around us and the way we analyze them. When our subconscious mind likes someone then our conscious mind listens to it and sends a proposal for the relationship. If we analyze this we see that we have no rights or hold on weather the relationship is created or broken or materialized. In other words relationship will be created if at all there is a genuine requirement.

Lets look at this Example: Two different people with two different subconscious minds which are guiding their individual conscious minds which are in turn sending and accepting the proposals for relationships. It’s quite simple and natural. We are human beings and we all have brains to think, why at all we think? Because there is a genuine requirement for particular necessity in life. It’s very simple that I’m writing this as my subconscious mind is guiding my conscious mind to express it to everyone. Now, either people accept it or reject it depending on their decision of subconscious minds and conscious minds. Likewise we can see that some relationships materialize only when everyone accepts it, as they cannot be forced upon to happen, nor they can be broken. All we can do is be calm, gentle, humble and stable to accept the truth by putting our good efforts. We have to keep walking our path of life towards happiness and satisfaction.

Sometimes it so happens that two persons accepts the relationships, but there are certain relationships which are to be accepted by the society to materialize, to give it a name and a meaning. On further analysis, this society is consumed of different individuals or people with different views and subconscious minds. We see that some of the relationships get their recognition only when accepted by the society, for example,  when accepted by our loved ones, parents, friends, relatives etc. Sometimes it will take time for the society to realize and accept the relationships. When we are walking our path of life, with lots of love, faith, prayers, blessings and goodwill then relationships happen depending on the necessity and requirement, we give them a name or we call them as “Luck” and “Destiny”. It’s quite simple. Above all this there is something, which controls everything, which we call as “super conscious” or the “soul of the universe” which is the “supreme power” which controls whole of the universe. When we pray this supreme soul to show us the right path of life to walk, then no doubt it will show us, but we sometimes feel that its crazy, where as its quite natural for the supreme soul. It’s the view how we look at certain things in life. In the view of the supreme soul its quite natural, as its keeping everything intact with love and affection, with healing and creativity and not destructive. It’s relating everything with goodness. It’s constantly converting bad to good. We should not forget that “God helps them who helps themselves”, meaning we have to put our good efforts and pray for good things to happen.

Why people usually don’t speak up. They think by speaking they may be caught, exposed, they may reveal their mistakes. They do not speak, as they are not sure of saying the right thing. They are afraid that the other person may hurt them and create problems. Some of them don’t speak because they don’t like the other person’s personality and attitude, they are afraid of losing their own individuality which they think is different than the other person. It’s basically the annoyance and irritation which they try to avoid. They tend to keep away from someone who tends to hurt them by passing comments and making fun of the other person who has a mild personality. Thus someone who is very calm, gentle and humble usually doesn’t like people who are fickle minded, crazy and unstable, who think they have a false confidence of winning personality. They think that they have to win no mater what. They don’t realize the good purpose of life. It’s the level of comfort one experiences with the other.

We are all the same Human Beings. At the end of the day we all do the same things. We all eat the same bread, we all expect the same sound sleep, and we all expect the same justice, satisfaction and happiness. In other words some basic necessities remain the same as humans.

We all have desires, it is natural. Should we control our desires? Is the question. This is where each one of us has different answers. We are all different personalities with different minds, brains, intelligence, beliefs and attitudes. Thus we believe in not discriminating others, not to hurt their feelings with criticism and hatred. At the same time we must show them the right path of life with brotherhood, love and compassion. We must bring this change with Constructive communication with gentleness.

Difference between Lust and Love:
Lust when indulged brings inertia (state of rest without motion) which is constructive, and when suppressed brings anger, destructive. Lust when suppressed, grips the mind and tires the body, and dulls the intellect. Lust is one of the main botheration that many face.
Lust is nothing but primordial (initiating) un-harnessed energy. The same when harnessed manifests as enthusiasm, sparkle, sharpness of intellect and love.
The factors which can sublimate (change from one form to another) or transform lust into love are: caring, empathy, gratitude, respect, gentleness.

Many of the times, it happens, while proposing to a immature person, for a relationship, for a life-partner, or for a marriage.
When someone says "I love you" and "I want to marry you".
One must not look at it with lust, as a point of view. People would react differently when proposed for a marriage.

A matured person, would react with politeness, empathy and gratitude. And would accept or reject the marriage proposal with a smile and mutual respect, with stability, without any greed or guilt of lust. This is because the person is not experiencing any lust or guilty-conscious within. They are clear of rejection with "NO".

Lust is Meaningful only after Marriage. Sometimes people misunderstand Love as Lust. Especially the teenagers, while at Schools and Colleges. Sometimes even Grown ups can get confused. Thus real maturity is when a person is controlled with Lust, while at Love. Thus Love appears in many different forms, with vast meanings and relationships. But the Lust along with Love is definitely Nourishing, Healthy, and Enjoyable while at Love. Thus Lust without Love is not meaningful. Thus Lust without Love might lead to Pain and Suffering. Similarly, when we Love someone, we must be aware not to include Lust without Marriage. Even just imagining Lust without marriage might lead to various physiological imbalance. For unmarried Lovers, Even while enjoying Lust with Love, It might lead to frustrations. It might create future problems and create insecurity, with a fear of uncertainty. Because it would never be possible to predict the future. Thus Lust is a word only for Married Partners, only within the Partners. Anything else will be a waste of time and energy, in the wrong direction.

It is quite obvious to experience fear when someone feels unsecured, due to desire for lust. When they are afraid of becoming miserable, because of their desire for lust, which can make them slaves of lust. Thus they are afraid of the lust as they experience guilty-conscious. A immature person would imagine lust, leading to shyness and feeling guilt. And would eventually react with anger and frustrations, in order to reject the feeling of lust which is unstable and irritating. Where as a matured person, would react differently.
If an immature person has a desire for lust, this would make them unstable, angry and arrogant. As they are looking at the lust without any compassion and love. They are unable to distinguish between lust and compassion.

On relationships. many times we see Beautiful, good looking, Gorgeous, People, dominating and controlling other individuals using their Power of Lust and Secs.

People also use Lust, using Lustful-imagination, to enjoy, to fulfill, to satisfy themselves to achieve their Lust.
They do it to satisfy and release their body and mind, to release themselves from the stronger grips of Lust, by imagining Lust mentally and emotionally with other persons, in their minds, in order to enjoy the feeling of Lust, to release and relax their body and mind.

People also use Lust to control other people, especially the good looking, beautiful, gorgeous people, who have the ability to seduce others misusing power of Lust. They mentally seduce other persons with Lust, just to dictate and make them their slaves. And when the innocent person approaches them with a desire of relationship, they start acting as if they are aloof and as if, not aware of the situation.

If the other person is not strong enough to understand the psychological Phenomenon, may be controlled by the stronger Lust. Thus the weaker person may destroy his career and future by wasting valuable time and energy thinking and imagining of useless thoughts, leading to useless actions. Instead of utilizing time to create quality proposals. India is critically suffering with such mental and emotional misconception.

Thus it would be very important and appropriate, to express the feeling of Lust, to establish Marriage, and to physically enjoy Lust and secs only after marriage.

Sometimes, the attractive people, who are able to control others with imaginary Lust, try to manipulate, by maintaining silence, in-order to confuse the other person. Thus they never express their universal Love in the form of Brother or Sister, either Mother or Father.

An intelligent person would be wise enough to understand this manipulation. Thus would control and reject such destructive psychological emotions. Lust is actually a vital part of Life, which has evolved the human beings, if not we would have never been born, it is nature and science. Thus Lust is meaningful, effective and appropriate only after marriage and only with the single life-partner. Apart from that Lust must be controlled and must not be mentally imagined which can hurt and create psychological imbalance.

Thus, meditation helps to overcome such negative emotions also, by concentration on breathing and healing body muscles with yoga, can be a good remedy to such negative emotions.

One must not be possessive while at Love.
Being Possessive means forcing and dictating someone to achieve any objective.
Love is freedom to achieve noble objective with peace and compassion.
And freedom is meaningful and respectable only while achieving an noble objective.
True Love can be satisfying and a real enjoyment only when performed with gratitude and willingness.
Love is in different forms. Creating different forms of relationships.
Love can be associated with various emotions, like affection, compassion, passion, lust, ambition, brotherhood, etc. Love can as well be used as a powerful weapon also.
Love is thus meaningful only while it has a constructive noble objective. If not it becomes manipulative, selfish, destructive and corrupt.
While love is to give, and as well to receive, with gratitude and respect.
Thus, Love is a sacred Divine blessing, to add strength, courage and wisdom, to accomplish our noble objective.

Truth is nourished only by Love:

Only True-Love can withstand the Real-Truth, even if its bitter.
Rectification and Improvement is possible only when the real-truth is analyzed.
one must not hide the real-truth from the true-love.
one must not hesitate to ask the real-truth to find true-love.
True-love is only possible with real-truth.
Without truth and love a relationship is just a compromise, adjustment.
Which cannot be enjoyed with real happiness.
Why would someone tell a lie to their dear ones or to their beloved?
This is a question often asked by lust-lovers. Lovers cannot stand untruth; it causes relationships to fall apart. The answer lies in understanding the paradox of love and truth.
People tell lies just to save and maintain their love. Lies are a result of fear that the truth might damage the love between husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, parents and children.
In love you feel weak but truth brings strength. So why do people prefer love over truth, weakness over strength?
No one wants to sacrifice love. Thus people are ready to give up the truth for their love. Love takes the luster out of truth. Sometimes truth can make love bitter; while in love, even lies can appear sweet, like Krishna’s lies to his mother, Yashoda. His wrong doing was forgiven because of love. Love can be BLIND sometimes, it can be both either truth or false. Thus love with truth is constructive and valuable, where as love with false is destructive and unworthy.
The truth that does not nourish love makes no sense,
and the love that cannot withstand the truth is not true love.
When you are assured that your love is so strong that the truth can neither break it nor cause bitterness, then the truth prevails and love shines.
With truth there are judgements, but true love is beyond judgements. The true love makes you weak and yet it is the strongest strength.
From time to time keep a little distance from whoever is very close to you. Take a time off for your own space and go deep into your Self, dig deep. You are an ocean. There's so much wealth deep inside you, so much beauty.
Forgiveness:
It is said that "forgive your enemies", but learn from your mistakes. Do not follow the wrong ones. Follow the correct ones. Love yourself before loving your enemies. Do not love blindly, without proper analysis. If possible convert the bad to good. Do not sacrifice your good principals in order to respect and love the wrong ones. It the conversion is not possible, then it means that the good within yourself needs to be improved, it needs to get stronger, thus meditate on your good principles, to achieve constructive strength.

It is quite a natural phenomenon for humans to understand the other persons emotional feelings, merely just by concentration and visualization. This is an amazing functionality of human mind though, to predict the emotional behavior of other humans, thus enabling them to understand others psychological situations. It is quite a phenomenon for humans to make a phone call only in certain favorable times. The person would certainly call at times while he would experience positive thoughts, he would certainly assume that the person at other end would be in need of his advise. We all have heard this popular saying "I will look to you, only if you look to me", meaning that humans have the amazing phenomenon to understand the emotional thoughts of other humans by concentrating and thinking of the other person. Thus people very much know whose company they would enjoy, probably that's why people fall in love. That's why people visualize other persons presence in their emotions. Probably that's why they decide to live their entire life with their life-partners. People do this in order to achieve their, happiness. The happiness achieved by company of like minded companions. In-order to enjoy their desire to live with individuals having similar objectives of life. Thus a person is able to remember the other, only when the other person is also remembering. Someone would love the other, only when the other would also love back. Thus it is not one sided. It is possible only when both are equally involved. Thus it is an mutual relationship. Thus it is quite true that one can sense the other persons calling in their emotions only when the other person would express an emotional remembering desire.

Sex, only with Married Life-Partner:
We live in a diverse world. Even though we are all the same human beings but still we all have different principles in life. That is what is Unity in Diversity. Even though we have few common principles like, honesty, integrity, compassion and brotherhood.

Even though I have a belief in principle of having sex only with a married life-partner. As sex to me is much cultural and traditional concept. I also believe that I must have only one wife, and I must not have multiple sex partners. And sex must be had only when there is Love between the married partners. Sex without Love has no meaning.

At the same time I do not criticize others having different principles. When I do not criticize others, I do suggest that others must not criticize me either. There must be mutual respect for each other human beings.
By following this principle, I also do not think that I am much superior than others. Nor I think others are superior to me either. We all have equal rights and freedom to live in the same society, without any criticism and discrimination, with brotherhood and respect for each other.

We are all equal and united together with constructive compassion.I personally think we must be intelligent before taking decisions and actions in real life. I believe life partner is a soul mate, with a physical relationship for a life time.

I think human mind is wild and crazy, has no boundaries, it is not tamed, and it can thus think and dream with infinite limitations. Thus we should stick to principals in order to have a healthy and controlled mind, body and soul. That is what we call as meditation, in other words cleansing and controlling our ideas and channelizing our thoughts in the right direction, to achieve our humble objective, with optimism, brotherhood, love and compassion. To walk on the right path of life. In other words, implementing meditation in our everyday life, also called as KARMA. What we sow is what we reap. It is very important to be a role model, so that others can follow on these foot prints.

Every person has a different and varied personal, social, economical and family situations, circumstances, requirements and necessities. Especially in under-developed countries, women are not self sufficient or independent. Even educated women believe that their only responsibility is to cook food and nurture children. They look for a easy going life without any physical strains and responsibilities. They do not believe in taking a job to contribute in financial stability. I do not criticize them, may be its correct for them, but not for me. They have all the rights to live their life accordingly, I too have my own rights to live my way of life. It is quite important to have a independent life-partner. Life-partner who believes in earning her own livelihood. One who believes in creating her own financial stability, along with respect and dignity, with a set of like minded principals. Believe in equal responsibility, contributing and sharing equally. It is very important to live with a like minded person to attain a satisfied and happy life.

Marriage is all about persistence, to stick with the same partner, with peaceful commitment and agreeable compromise. Marriage is all about falling in love, with the same person, for several times. For your entire life. But with respect and humbleness.

Love changes, and nobody understands that. The idea that Love Leads to Happiness is a modern invention. Dating from the late 17th century onwards, people have learned to believe that love should last for ever and that marriage is the best way to exercise love. In the past there was not so much optimism about the longevity of passion.
“Romeo and Juliet isn’t a happy story, it’s a tragedy. In the last few decades, expectation has grown a lot regarding marriage being the path towards personal accomplishment. Disappointment and dissatisfaction have also grown at the same time.”
People have been married to the same person for more than 30 years, their entire life period, but metaphorically speaking, the same marriage contains several "new marriages" during their relationship. Their bodies and souls changed, and they are still together. If they wanted to keep on as they were, when they were married, they would have not come so far.

Nice Song: Describing the Qualities of a Humble Indian Gentleman (Vaishnava)
http://lyrics-by-manoj-kargudri.blogspot.com/2011/12/qualities-of-vaishnav-tolerates-and.html

Here is an article by Swami that I came across,
Swami's First Sexual Experience After 30 Years of natural Celibacy.
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/my-life/8280-my-first-sexual-experience-after-30-years-of-natural-celibacy-19-jun-11.html

While I was reading this article I thought of commenting on the article. My intentions were not to hurt anyone but only to express my view and opinion. I also want to express that I have not had sex until now, and will only have with my married life-partner in future. It was nice to hear about his experience. He also say that he is not sad to lose his virginity, and he is also happy for not being celibate any more. He has very much expressed his views and real truth, that he has already experienced in his life. It is always good to express the truth. Well, mistakes do happen in life, but we can rectify these mistakes only when we accept them. But one question is pondering. Should we teach the same things to our next generation? to our children. Should we teach them to lose their celibacy and to lose their virginity? Just imagine when someone accepts certain principals in life, which will eventually carve his character. Will a person who has lost his celibacy and virginity, expect the same from their life-partner? Will this person ever have a relationship with a life-partner who is a celibate. Is it fair to lose celibacy just to accomplish sexual desires. Should we humans control our desires to attain our humble and noble objectives of life. Being tolerant is good, but is it good to lose ones identity and principals. Can we be good parents and teachers if we lose our principals.
Here is a nice song, I want to dedicate to this thought process. This song signifies the qualities of an Indian Vaishnava. As it says: A Vaishnav sees everything equally, rejects greed and avarice, Considers some one else's wife/daughter as his mother.
Here is the English meaning of this song: A Vaishnav, Tolerates and praises the the entire world, Does not say bad things about anyone, Keeps his/her words, actions and thoughts pure. A Vaishnav sees everything equally, rejects greed and avarice, Considers some one else's wife/daughter as his mother. The tongue may get tired, but will never speak lies. Does not even touch someone else's property. Who has no greed and deceit, Who has renounced lust of all types and anger.

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Monday, August 28, 2006

The path of victory, the path of life, winning in losing!

We all have desires to achieve good things. We put our good efforts to achieve them. Sometimes we assume and think it is ours in order to be optimistic. We love to an extent that we give ourselves, thus we lose ourselves.

It is the time and destiny, we tried, we did our effort, we listened within. We took a path which we felt was righteous and true to our hearts.

May be we win or lose, that doesn’t matter. All that matters is the satisfaction. May be we won or lost it for good, but how can we lose when we took the right path? May be our victory was hidden in losing it. We lost something to achieve it. We don’t understand why, that’s why we call it as destiny. Sometimes victory is hidden in losing. Its blessings in disguise, as everything happens for good. Sometimes the wrong person gets the credit for the hard efforts of the person, to whom the credit belongs to.

Everything happens for good, we don’t know why? How? When? Or where? If at all we knew how, then we could have done it, but we did try in our own ways. It doesn’t matter weather we achieve or not but we are proud of the path we took. We are happy that we did not hurt anyone in our journey. All our lives when we remember the past, it will give us the strength and courage. Because we know that we were true to our hearts. No matter what the results, we are satisfied with our efforts. That is why we say “better luck next time”. Let’s keep walking on the path of happiness. We are just walking with joy at our hearts.

Tears roll down our cheeks, we do cry, but we cry the tears of happiness. These tears were due to joy, its how we look at it. Due to agape of the unexpected miracle.
All we realize is that we are proud of the path we took. We certainly took the right path and it was a victory.
Who knows? Tomorrow does come again, may be they will come back again. We must never loose Hope. We must accept the lose, as its a blessing in disguise. The good purpose was achieved.

*[Read: Life is full of Tests.] *[Things become inevitable!] *[Realizations In Real Life.]

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*Realizations. *Realizations In Real Life. *Amazing Constructive Vibrations. *Astrology. *Creating Leaders. *How ideas are concluded and decisions are materialized. *Relationships & Partnerships. *The path of victory. *An attempt for definition. *Speak with a heart. *These are contagious. *Happy kingdom. *MIRACLES. *Better to create one ! *Cast, God and religion ! *Things become inevitable ! *We are all looking for! *Phase of Life. *Destiny, Karma and God. *Struggle, perfection and Money. *Independence and Freedom. *Relationships and Happiness.

Monday, April 17, 2006

An attempt for definition:

When someone looks at us as their brother, we can see brotherhood in them.
When they look at us as their child, we see a parent in them.
When some look at us as their enemy, we need to see a friend in them.
As Love is the strongest weapon in the whole of universe.
The only thing that can convert enemies to friends, bad to good.
History proves that good is always victorious over bad.

Every relationship has a meaning. All we got to do is give it a name.
It’s a struggle and hard to define relationships when we love someone without any expectations.
We don’t know, maybe it’s called as passion or merely an infatuation.
It’s better to take relationships in life as they come.
Everything happens for good and thus leads to destiny.

A good purpose, good desire, good pleasure, within proven boundaries of discipline and character, are the keys to justice, satisfaction and happiness.
They say life is full of mysteries, lets have patience.
Faith, Blessings and Prayers are the means.

Without any virtual or literal communications we cry, laugh and experience the sweet pain.
It’s quite healing with lots of fun and surprises.
May be that’s how we learn.

We have to decide what’s good for us.
We have to take decisions and initiatives.
We have to communicate, and be optimistic.
We have to take a judgment and say what we want.
Because it’s our life.

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Thursday, March 30, 2006

Speak with a heart:

When we want to speak what is there in our heart, we need not think what we should speak. It’s the truth that is to be spoken which needs no manipulations. All it takes is to listen to your heart and speak whatever the person within oneself says. We need not think or be afraid of the consequences. We need not think weather the relationship strengthens or breaks, as it’s the destiny which decides relations. Everything happens for good and thus leads to destiny.

Being true to ones heart certainly means putting our sincere efforts by expressing and leave the remaining rest to destiny to decide. There is someone inside us who is showing us the right path on which we all can walk. Before speaking your heart one needs to go in a trance. One has to be calm, gentle, humble and stable, and then speak what ever reflects back. Meditate in silence. Love him, speak to him, ask him, listen to him, and then express it. It comes from heart.

Sometimes we got to speak what’s in our heart, as these are the critical and crucial decisions in the phase of life which are going to make a difference in relationships. It leads to a conclusion which has justice, satisfaction and happiness.

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*Realizations. *Realizations In Real Life. *Amazing Constructive Vibrations. *Astrology. *Creating Leaders. *How ideas are concluded and decisions are materialized. *Relationships & Partnerships. *The path of victory. *An attempt for definition. *Speak with a heart. *These are contagious. *Happy kingdom. *MIRACLES. *Better to create one ! *Cast, God and religion ! *Things become inevitable ! *We are all looking for! *Phase of Life. *Destiny, Karma and God. *Struggle, perfection and Money. *Independence and Freedom. *Relationships and Happiness.

These are contagious:

Everything is contagious, good and also bad. Justice, satisfaction and happiness are contagious too. Similar to contagious diseases, which are bad to societies. When something bad can catch us why not good catch us? Let’s get infected to goodness. Let’s spread this infection to everyone around us. Its great fun to see it grow and spread.

It’s the spark that’s to be created which lights the lamp for guidance and it’s the same spark which destroys the creation. May lord bless his creation with his wisdom to do good.

When any part of our body starts paining, what do we usually do? Cut it off? Not really, because its part of oneself. We will suffer more by cutting it off. We cannot leave it as it is, because it’s paining and spreading. The best thing would be to do all that is needed to heal it and bring it back to a healthy condition.

Here are a few remedies to cure:
Love, caring and sharing heals the pain.
Prayers, faith, blessings and optimism heal the pain.
Medicines, nature and spiritualism heal the pain.

Why not think wise?

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